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I Went To A Swingers Club And I Actually Enjoyed It

I Went To A Swingers Club And I Actually Enjoyed It

I like to try things in life, the more forbidden the better, and my natural curiosity brought me to a place I never thought I would set foot in: a swingers club!

The O Zone’s Mardi Pardi is the Pardi Of The Year!

The O Zone’s Mardi Pardi is the Pardi Of The Year!

The O Zone is known for its extravagant parties with over-the-top decorations, and Mardi Pardi is no exception! This is one of The Zone’s largest parties each year, and adventurous couples from all over Canada and the US converge for a night of decadent and naughty fun! This year, the date is Saturday, March 23rd!

Exclusively Silks private members club opening at Croydon Hall near Minehead

Exclusively Silks private members club opening at Croydon Hall near Minehead

A NEW private members club aimed at providing "fun, passion and pure indulgence" has opened in the Somerset countryside.

Chameleons swingers club, 4some, 5some and a queue of men

Chameleons swingers club, 4some, 5some and a queue of men

We checked into the hotel and immediately turned our thoughts to getting ready for the club. We were staying in Birmingham for the ETO show but tonight it was BBW night at Chameleons.

12 Things Most People Don't Know About The Swinging Lifestyle

12 Things Most People Don't Know About The Swinging Lifestyle

Couples in committed, non-monogamous relationships – also referred to as "swinging" or "the lifestyle" – are often thought to be part of a tiny underground community that never escaped the weirdo world of the 1970s sexual revolution. 

Cuando tu pareja lo hace con otra persona...

Cuando tu pareja lo hace con otra persona...

Si sois pareja swinger seguro que en alguna ocasión os han hecho la pregunta "que sientes cuando ves a tu pareja follando con otra persona?" O si no sois swinger seguro que se os ha pasado por la cabeza el preguntarlo.

Single Girl Survival Kit: what you need for your first swinger party

Single Girl Survival Kit: what you need for your first swinger party

Before I attended my first party many moons ago, my thoughts were not so much on the ethics, or the self-image, but rather on trying to figure out what on earth I was supposed to wear, bring and do.

How To Host A Swinger’s Party!

How To Host A Swinger’s Party!

Swinging is a form of open relationship where committed couples engage in non-monogamous sexual behaviour.

How to get your partner to join the swinging lifestyle

How to get your partner to join the swinging lifestyle

How might you enter the Swinging Lifestyle? How do swinging couples start in the Swinging Lifestyle? How might you motivate your accessory to join the Swinging Lifestyle? 

That time my boyfriend took me to a swingers' resort in Mexico

That time my boyfriend took me to a swingers' resort in Mexico

Perhaps the No Photography sign in the lobby should have tipped me off. Another clue was the large mural of two naked models in a pool doing what cannot be described as the butterfly stroke.

Swinger Men Are Self-Concious Too

Swinger Men Are Self-Concious Too

There are many misconceptions when it comes to the world of swinging. The one least talked about, at least in my experience, is the self-conciousness of men in the lifestyle. 

How a British ‘lord’ rebranded middle-class swinger parties as ‘posh’ orgies

How a British ‘lord’ rebranded middle-class swinger parties as ‘posh’ orgies

The  English  love a story of posh people behaving badly, especially one that involves sex, drugs or drink — preferably all three at once — in some stately home or Mayfair pad.

Pampas grass: the not-so secret symbol of swingers is a turn-off

Pampas grass: the not-so secret symbol of swingers is a turn-off

Sales of the feathery plant have plummeted – are innocent gardeners getting wise to its hidden meaning?

I Became a Swinger During a 10th-Anniversary Cruise with My Husband

I Became a Swinger During a 10th-Anniversary Cruise with My Husband

For this installment of our weekly interview series, Love, Actually, about the reality of women's sex lives, we spoke with Vera (a pseudonym), a married woman who unexpectedly got into swinging during a tenth-anniversary cruise.

8 Erotic Hotels That Swingers Will Love

8 Erotic Hotels That Swingers Will Love

Meeting new people and seeing fresh places is something that unites every traveler during their journey. But for open-minded couples who like to swing, the opportunity to meet other like-minded adults on vacation can be a challenge, especially if you don't know where to look. Well, we come bearing good news.

I had sex at a swingers club and liked it

I had sex at a swingers club and liked it

Our sex columnist says goodbye to Atlanta, but not before visiting a swingers club.

The 5 Kinds of People You Meet at a Swingers' Sex Party, in Case You Were Wondering

The 5 Kinds of People You Meet at a Swingers' Sex Party, in Case You Were Wondering

My first swingers’ sex party got off to a bad start. I was horrified when I arrived and realized that my boyfriend and I were the only ones not wearing a mask. Somehow I'd missed the memo. If I were wearing Rihanna's see-through dress, I would have felt less exposed.

What Really Happens During "Young Swingers Week" at a Clothing-Optional Resort

What Really Happens During "Young Swingers Week" at a Clothing-Optional Resort

By the time we arrived the clothing-optional resort in Jamaica  called Hedonism  for  Young Swingers Week , my boyfriend Jesse and I had already been on holiday for five days — and hadn't had sex in even longer.

Confessions of a swinger that will change how you see the lifestyle

Confessions of a swinger that will change how you see the lifestyle

Swinging isn’t just a pastime for the local park. It’s a global community of people who engage in sexual relations as a recreational or social activity — and it’s thriving more than you might think.

I Took My Boyfriend to a Swingers' Resort

I Took My Boyfriend to a Swingers' Resort

The sexual freedom was so insistent that I'd started feeling obligated to "let myself be free," which perhaps wasn't something I actually wanted.

Swingers reveal everything you've ever wanted to know including their first time, what it's like watching your lover with someone else and the tricks they've learned

Swingers reveal everything you've ever wanted to know including their first time, what it's like watching your lover with someone else and the tricks they've learned

A group of swingers have revealed salacious details about their taboo lifestyles as part of a program that aims to debunk myths and misconceptions around fringe groups in society.

Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers

Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers

Men and women who swing may have some important mental health strengths.

The Secret Life of America’s Greatest Swinger

The Secret Life of America’s Greatest Swinger

Say you’re a guy who’d like some other guy to bed your wife. No? Well, it happens. And when it does, Dave’s the sort of man you call. He’s a demure doctor from a quiet neighborhood. But thanks to some rare talents and ubiquitous technologies, he’s also a star in the bedrooms of others—and a helpful guide to the joyful, lusty life of the truly modern hedonist.    

'I found out my parents were swingers'

'I found out my parents were swingers'

Tracing your genealogy through at-home DNA tests can be exciting... but the results can often prove quite shocking.

British sex swingers are set to invade a Benidorm religious festival dedicated to the Virgin Mary

British sex swingers are set to invade a Benidorm religious festival dedicated to the Virgin Mary

The festival of the Virgin Mary is set to begin in the Spanish town this weekend, celebrating the area’s patron saints.

'I broke the one rule of being a swinger'

'I broke the one rule of being a swinger'

One woman explains how a lifestyle of swinging led to polyamory and how years of therapy made her think differently about love.

I Attend A Sex Party In NYC Every Month. Here’s What Happens There.

I Attend A Sex Party In NYC Every Month. Here’s What Happens There.

This isn’t the first thing I’ll tell you if we meet, but depending on the circumstances that brought us together, and the kind of person you are, it may arise at some point.

Common Reasons People Become Swingers

Common Reasons People Become Swingers

Common Reasons People Become Swingers

Inside an orgy: Champagne, swingers and the smell 'that will haunt you forever'

Inside an orgy: Champagne, swingers and the smell 'that will haunt you forever'

10 years ago, while working for a well-known men's magazine, I went undercover at an orgy. Here's what I learned…

I Was a Jealous Partner Until I Went on a Swingers Vacation

I Was a Jealous Partner Until I Went on a Swingers Vacation

If you told me a year ago that I'd watch my husband get a blowjob from a stranger and not feel jealous, I'd have laughed in your face.

What It's Like To Attend A Swingers Party As A Single Woman

What It's Like To Attend A Swingers Party As A Single Woman

Tips and tricks for you to know before attending your first party, to have the time of your life.

Couples reveal what really happens at swingers parties

Couples reveal what really happens at swingers parties

A group of swingers have given a rare and honest insight into the inner workings of the taboo lifestyle, revealing the truth behind people's common misconceptions.

My Wife And I Are Swingers: Here's What It's Actually Like

My Wife And I Are Swingers: Here's What It's Actually Like

My wife and I are a typical heterosexual couple, but we have a dirty secret: We're swingers. No, we don't twirl and flip to music from the 1940s; we meet other couples and have sex with each other's partners. 

Swinging is certainly not for everyone and we all know it. But if it is not for everyone, then for whom is it?

Swinging is certainly not for everyone and we all know it. But if it is not for everyone, then for whom is it?

First of all, let's define the term swinging. Maybe some of you are new to the lifestyle and you are wondering what we are talking about.

Swinging Lifestyle-A guide for beginners

Swinging Lifestyle-A guide for beginners

The swinger lifestyle is still a taboo, but today, the term is more accepted then it was a few years ago. The main attraction and the main reason why people are getting into this kind of lifestyle is the freedom that both partners have.